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Dealing with Rejection

Dealing with Rejection

Feeling of Rejection

When you are rejected by someone it can be emotional after you shared initimate experiences, but its how you are able to manage emotions to not be reactive. Develop you self-esteem which gives the confidence to move forward in life. Sometimes rejection can be a blessing to find a more suitable companion.

How Can You Handle Rejection?

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Demonstrate Love & Acceptance When Rejected

Smile, Be Polite, Accept it, Maybe even joke about it to show the person you are strong about it, and Love Yourself first and foremost.


Build Yourself

The acceptance of rejection can be very difficult sometimes and it requires to love yourself to feel good about yourself if someone does not see your value, but that's OK because rejection is a part of life to help us grow to work on ourselves mentally, physically, and emotionally to be even stronger

Think on it

If you are feeling emotionally down about the person who rejected you, think on it that the person may not be a good fit in a relationship and sometimes the person may be trying to save you from getting into a relationship with them because of underlying issues not shared of not being compatible.

Be Poliite and Demonstrate Maturity

If someone rejects you, be polite and perhaps share loving words that you wish for them to be happy and you want nothing but the best for them. The person who rejects will remember how you handled the situation and who knows, sometimes we are being tested by our character.

Show a Good Character

Always be polite and show a strong character because you are developing relationships or connections that could lead to a greater reputation for someone to perhaps reccomend you to a person who may be better suited for you as a match.

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Being Ghosted - Did Not Hear Back From Your Match

Your Endless Love strives for building good healthy connections and if we are ghosted, we need to be mature about it and move on. There may technical issues, personal matters, or something left unsaid because the person is being considerate about your feelings.


Don't Take it Personal

Don't take it personally if someone does not reach out, after all dating is the concept of getting to know one another and by moving on it creates a postive and healthy mindset. The avoidance of being emotionally attached and building good affirmations may build a great high self-esteem to be positive to find another person who values you.

Manage Your Emotions

So, don't place all of your emotions in one person if you only started to get to know them for a short period because it may not be commitment between you and the person you matched up as yet. Like the saying "Don't put your eggs in one basket", as you may be aware the person you are interested in needs to have the same level of interest as you to make a possible connection into a real relationship.

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Do Not Blame Yourself

If you are rejected by someone and you know you did nothing wrong and did your best, you should not blame youself for something you have no control over.Move on and be confident in yourself.


Be Respectful

Do not blame yourself if someone rejects you; you should not think you did not do anything wrong if you were respectful; People have different perspectives of what is ideal for them as a suitable match and even if you don't fit their profile, just remember that someone else values you even more than the person you thought would have ended up in a relationship with.


Read Positive Affirmations

Its reccommended you read positive affirmations to build your confidence and self-esteem. You should always feel good about yourself and do not deprive you health by thinking repeatedly of "What I could have done better ?", those kind of thoughts are not healthly at all. You should focus on framing you mind to become the best version of yourself each and every day and continue on living your life. There is someone out there who would truly value your friendship or a romantic relationshp as you get to know the person.

Rejection is Part of Life

Rejection is a part of life, but it is how you deal with it, which means you are mature, polite, have a postive mindset to move on, and accept it. Rejection can also be a motivator for you to improve youself in areas you may think you need to work on, but attraction is based on qualities of the character of the person not just on appearances.

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Depression

Dealing with depression is never easy. At Your Endless Love, we would like for you to have a stress free dating experience and develop yourself to handle rejection, so you do not feel depressed about situations that may not may be in control. A person may have feelings that can change over time, so always take good care of your health and rejections from other people cause you to give up hope in finding your potential partner. There is saying "Always keep throwing line out in the sea until you can catch a fish". Life can be a journey, so you can read about on how you may be able to handle depression

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